The Breakdown Has Started

Here is a thoughtful essay on why we feel traumatized:

I can’t fool myself to think that the ogre is not coming — but walking to meet [her] together is much better than standing alone. Connectivity is the only intervention I know.

http://www.salon.com/2014/11/23/we_are_starting_to_break_down_why_so_many_americans_are_badly_traumatized_by_life_partner/

And that is why the ogre watches and listens every time we connect to each other. She wants to thwart that intervention before it begins.